How to Cum Hands-Free: New Ways to Jerk Off Without Touching

Is masturbation becoming the same old motions for you? Same old lube, same old hand, same old hidden folder filled with delightful filth. Don’t you, your penis, and your prostate deserve something new?

It’s time to engage your largest sexual organ: your brain. Getting aroused doesn’t start in the dick — it starts in the mind. In fact, you can masturbate without ever taking a trip down south. So, if you’re on the hunt for new ways to jerk off that don’t involve those vinegar strokes, try going hands-free. You’ll be in a world of pure ejaculation.

What is a hands-free orgasm?

A hands-free orgasm is when someone reaches sexual climax without touching their genitals. They often rely on a combination of factors: mental focus, body awareness, specific techniques, and a profound connection to their desires. The sensations from such a technique can actually make you cum — no hand, hole, or pole needed.

This procedure actually comes in several difficulty levels. If you want to take it literally, a hands-free orgasm is any nut that doesn’t require your hands. Pillow humping and mattress matrimony count. Heck, a self-service footjob fits the bill. Then, there’s the more honest interpretation: no penis stimulation. This still allows you to utilize other pleasure points on your body. But the final boss of autoeroticism is the touch-free orgasm, wherein you bust your britches without any external stimulation.

Benefits of hands-free orgasms

Why would anyone use their mind instead of sex toys, hands, or suitors? You’re in for a sexy surprise. A hands-free climax can genuinely take your sex life to new heights.

More sensitivity

When you aren’t fiddling with your wedding tackle, you’ll quickly find other areas of your body that hunger to experience arousal. These areas are more likely to become activated when you’re less focused on your genitals.

It’s like putting on a blindfold to heighten your other senses. You’re practically Daredevil when you masturbate like this. The Avengers recruiters are on their way, we’re sure.

A deeper mind-body connection

Orgasms are good for you. But hands-free orgasms require effort — at least more effort than the slack-jawed masturbation session you usually crank out when you can’t fall asleep.

OK, that’s unfair. No orgasmic experience is inherently better than another. Still, accessing your imagination is sexier than you think, and harnessing it to make you cum bonds your mind and body — rather than just bonding your pelvic floor to a Bad Dragon dildo.

Sexual variety

Who doesn’t want a little more spice in their sex life? You already know pleasure isn’t only experienced through touch. There are plenty of ways to experience stimulation, and attempting to cum hands-free might be just the change of pace you need.

How to cum hands-free

OK, you’ve read the foreword. Now, you’re ready for the recipe. Here are just a few of the many ways you can cook up mindful sexual pleasure for yourself — or potentially a partner. (Note: Your mileage may vary, depending on what gets your metaphorical and metaphysical rocks off.)

1. Tantric sex

Tantric sex is a well-known way to achieve a hands-free orgasm, but it’s not necessarily well understood. Tantric sex emphasizes prolonged intimacy and energy exchange, allowing partners (and individuals) to connect deeply and reach orgasm through breath and energy rather than touch. This method is great to try solo or with a friend (or two or three).

2. Nipple play

Nipple play is a perfect example of how hands-free doesn’t mean touch-free. Time to turn titty twisting into something even more titillating. Nipple stimulation can lead to intense arousal and — if you flick ‘em just right — maybe even an orgasm.

3. Hands-free orgasm hypnosis

You are getting very, very… horny? Yep, hypnosis techniques are highly beneficial for helping you relax and focus your energy, which naturally relates to eroticism. Sinking into your mind through guided imagery can at least put you in the right headspace for a hands-free orgasm.

4. Water play

Rub a dub dub, let’s cum in the tub! The sensation of water, whether in a bath or shower, can create a uniquely relaxing environment. The warmth and gentle flow of water are natural aphrodisiacs. Plus, what’s sexier than pretending to star in an Herbal Essences commercial from the early aughts?

5. Edging

Practicing edging — bringing yourself close to orgasm without climaxing — can eventually lead to a powerful hands-free release. Yes, this technique may initially involve your hands or toys. But play your cards right, and your prostate might take matters into its own hands.

6. Sensory deprivation

Remember that Daredevil analogy from before? Time to take it literally. Although it won’t necessarily cause an orgasmic experience on its own, sensory deprivation can play a massive role in achieving a hands-free climax. Try coupling any of these experiences with blindfolds or headphones and feel those heightened sensations soar even higher. You’ll be fighting crime in Hell’s Kitchen in no time.

7. Erotic audio

Whether it’s erotic stories or ear-eating ASMR, audio or music can be a powerful way to achieve orgasm. There are plenty of hands-free guided masturbation videos out there to choose from. Like many other techniques, this will take practice, but tuning to your inner masturbation maestro is a pretty fun way to kill an afternoon.

8. Visualization

Close your eyes and envision the most erotic scenario imaginable. Chances are, if you’ve ever masturbated (or had underwhelming sex), some visualization or memory recall has helped you achieve orgasm. But you can also do it without all the humping.

9. Temperature play

Applying hot or cold items to your body can stimulate arousal and lead to hands-free orgasms through sensory exploration. If you moan whenever the AC short-cycles, try bringing an ice cube into the mix during masturbation sessions.

10. Fantasy role-playing

Fantasizing about different scenarios can transport you to a realm of wonder — and provide some thunder down under. Writing or reading fanfic or exchanging sexy stories with a partner can absolutely make your decimal system extra dewy.

Tips to cum without touching yourself

Many of our outlined methods require time, patience, and practice. But most of us are just trying to get a tasty nut and move on with our lives. It’s challenging to slow down and enjoy the ride. Here’s what we recommend if your end goal is a hands-free goon session:

Get familiar with your orgasms

How do you O? What makes you extra horny, even if you aren’t having sex? Knowing your body and compiling data from previous orgasms can help you replicate those sensations in your mind without ever involving your between-me-down-there.

Have a gameplan

Before attempting a hands-free orgasm, outline your approach and techniques to stay focused. Don’t get too caught up in the planning, though. A rigid schedule can create expectations, and you want to take your time and enjoy the journey rather than rushing to the destination.

Be patient

Patience is a virtue that pays dividends during hands-free sex. Stay present and give in to the pleasure. It’s probably best to allot ample time so you don’t feel rushed. You shouldn’t be experimenting with hands-free orgasms for the first time right before work or a deadline (and we definitely didn’t need to repeat that in the mirror while writing this).

Explore different techniques

You probably don’t stick to one position during sex, so don’t pigeonhole yourself into one masturbation technique, either. If tantric sex isn’t for you, that’s OK; try something else. Something will eventually click with you and your disco stick.

Create a comfy environment

If your goal is to relax and surrender to the moment, you need an environment that facilitates that. Fire up some candles, dim the lights, and remove distractions like video game controllers or particularly fluffy cats. Give your undivided attention to the experience.

Misconceptions about hands-free orgasms

Some of the common wisdom about hands-free orgasms isn’t actually so wise. Let’s debunk a few widespread misunderstandings.

Stimulation should always end in orgasm

This is a silly misconception ushered in by the idea of “blue balls,” aka men needing to cum or else they’ll die or something. Stimulation can be a delightful part of human existence with or without orgasm.

Mindgasms are impossible to achieve

We wouldn’t have gotten this far if we thought they were — and frankly, neither would you. Achieving orgasm through mental focus is both possible and incredibly fulfilling for anyone seeking a balanced and exciting sex life.

Hands-free orgasms are only for the experienced

There’s also a misconception that only seasoned practitioners can achieve hands-free orgasms. With practice and exploration, anyone can master these techniques.

It’s just a myth

If you dismiss a hands-free climax as an impossibility, that’s a bummer. Many people report successful hands-free orgasms, and we’re inclined to believe them.

Where do you think wet dreams come from? That’s your mind hanging out with your prostate while you sleep — and they get along quite well! So, why not see if they can grab lunch sometime?